What happens in, stays in????

I woke up with the thought of how my friends travel and in some cases their significant others don't travel with them.  My husband is not going, he refuse.  His logic is, if he can't go, I can't go. I don't necessarily have a problem with his logic, I just know there is a spa weekend with the girls that I'm gonna have to beg to go to.  However, what about these women that have significant others and as soon as they exit the State they reside in they forget that they are attached?  Married women hooking up with random individuals, ex-boyfriends ect.  Girlfriends, who say that she want her relationship to got to the next level, saying forget that I'm not married as soon as she's away from her guy? Now I'm not the morality police, far from it, but if the shoe was on the other foot how would you feel????  Sometimes people need to stop and think about that....
Much love,
Have a great weekend.

WTF is the problem

I want to understand the mindset of women who have good fathers for their children but yet want to make their life miserable.  At some point you have to realize that your relationship with him is no longer about you.  You have these self proclaimed "mothers" that keep children away from the fathers, encourage the children to disrespect the fathers, or allow outsiders to undermind the authority of the father.  WTF is the problem? You so used to nothingness that once you have someone who want to give your child the world, you chose for them to be a miserable individual like yourself.  Females like this does not deserve to be called mothers.  My advice to my wayward females, do like I do with my son's father, whenever he calls and want to get his child, LET HIM.  When he want to discipline them for doing wrong, LET HIM.  Because what do you do when its time for him to give you money, your ass LET HIM....